Games can be fun if you’re willing to play, take some risks, and keep a sense of humor. Take a look at what you’re going to need along the way and then decide if you’re up for playing. The best players (and the ones that get the most ass) need a combination of the following when navigating us wily women:
•Persistence (but not too much because then you’ll be “pushy” or worse, “sleazy”)
•Attention (but you can’t get too caught up in our words because we usually say things that are contradictory and confusing, instead notice our body language and stay curious about our words, playful questioning and challenging is often accepted)
•Love (this can be difficult to muster up if you’ve got
Sex Tube some unresolved resentment from past women, do whatever you can do drop off your baggage before navigating a woman, if she feels anger and blame, she will be repelled)
•Unattached to the outcome (women can sniff out an agenda in about 30 seconds and when they do, they run, so give up on getting something from her from the get go, it’s counterintuitive but you’ll get a lot more in the long run)
•Sense of humor (this is the trump card)
•Curiosity (asking open ended questions always a safe bet)
Don’t take first signs of resistance as signs of failure. The case isn’t closed. Do remain curious and playful. Common signs of resistance include:
•“I’m tired, I have a headache, I’m on my period”
•“I have to finish this first, I have to get up
Hot Adult early for work, something work something”
•“I don’t think I’m ready, I want to go slow, I don’t feel like it, I just can’t, I don’t know if I want to or not.”
•She talks about her boyfriend and puts it on him, “He would be heartbroken, he’d be upset, he won’t let me”
•She picks a silly fight
•She pretends she’s doing something very important
•She invites her friend to go out with the two of you
•She puts her desire on you, she makes it all about you wanting to sleep with her
Once you decide you’re going to play, you’re going to bring all these qualities (that you already have) out, you’re going to stay calm in the face of resistance, take a risk. Go out for a day, meet 10 woman (or plan an evening with your girlfriend) and when you feel a spark of desire, stay with it even if she tries to avoid it. See how long you can be playful and curious with whatever she throws your way and notice what happens to your turn-on.
Now, I’m not advising you to be aggressive, forceful, intimidating or touch her if she is physically or verbally saying NO. If she says no, she says no and you do want to give her space to refuse an offer. She’ll trust you more if you do. What I am advising is that if it is clear she is a yes but she is giving you an excuse, if she’s saying yes, but… you can have a little bit of fun.
